Thursday, February 21, 2013

The First Few Weeks


The first few weeks of Juliet's life were a giant haze that felt like one REALLY long weekend. Everything meshed together and if I wanted to know what day of the week it was, I needed to check my phone.

BTW where the heck is my damn phone?

It took me about 4 weeks to finish this post, as I had to start and stop it several times because our little lady would cry every time I got near the computer. ;)

We have had a parade of visitors which was crazy but so touching how many people love our Juliet so much!

Here are some pics:
 Nana and Pop Pop

"Auntie" Susan and  "Uncle" Justin ( Juliet's Godparents)
"Hey you are pretty awesome, will you be my godparents?" XOXOXOO -Juliet 


 Aunt Brittney

Uncle Jarrod

Grandpa


 Grandpa & Grandma



Grandma & Nana



Cousins Cami & Mady




AND....
Let me just say that ALL of the stuff people tell you about newborns.....is Freakin true!

Here are some examples:

1. You're lucky if you can get a hot meal or take a shower.

I thought how hard is it to take a shower? or eat I'll just set her down and get it done  while she's sleeping....YEAH RIGHT.

Someone (ahem Juliet) doesn't really like to sleep unless she is being held.

Shower:
Can happen with Juliet (especially since she peed in her hair again) which means I can wash my hair with one hand and only use 2 in 1 shampoo which leaves my un-blow dried hair full of static electricity and amazingly unattractive. 

OR I can take a quick one during one of her naps in the bouncy chair which are all at different times of the day so sometimes I'm showering at 9pm.


My food: 
My diet now mostly consists of poptarts (un-toasted which pretty much makes it a frosted cookie not a delicious warm poptart) eaten with one hand on poptart one on baby.



2. Mommy brain is worse than pregnancy brain.

When I was pregnant, I thought, "How can it get worse than this?"

LMAO.

That shiznat was NOTHING!

Since Juliet's been home, I've burned 3 meals, forgot to turn the oven off once and can't be trusted to have an important conversation that lasts for more than 2 minutes.

Scratch that. One minute. ;)

ETC.


3. When you are with your newborn all day long you will instantly hand her to your husband when he gets home and say "All yours!".

I thought no way! I'll want to hold my baby 24/7 all day. Not so much after doing it for 14 hours with only an hour nap. As much as I love holding her, every night once Steve walks through the door "Here you go Stevie!".

4. Breastfeeding is hard.

100% true, but this is a bit of an understatement. I'd say if you are a Mom like me that it didn''t come easy to, I'd like to change this statement to:

Breastfeeding is FREAKIN hard.

My Peanut wouldn't latch (screamed her little head off every time we tried) so now the only breast milk she gets is what I'm able to pump.

The Crap I didn't know (or hear about):
How hard it is if your newborn has feeding issues because of the pressure from the lactation consultants at the hospital and everyone around you that breastfeeding came easier to that is "trying to help" by offering their two sense. My lesson learned here: My boobs are my boobs and I'm going to do with them what is best for me. I'd offer the same advice to any new Mom who is struggling with this. That and, It Gets Better...

5. IT GETS BETTER

As we are coming to the one month mark the baby blues have gone away, we've adjusted to the fact that Juliet is getting formula and pumped breast milk and she is on a "sort-of" sleep schedule that Steve and I are doing our best to work with. Example, my bedtime is now about 7-8pm.

Oh Yeah. I like to party. ;)

6. IT'S ALL WORTH IT!

The first time she smiled in her sleep and made a noise that wasn't a cry...a bit of a coo or an ahhh it is the cutest damn thing EVA! I can't wait for the next few weeks when she starts interacting with us more.



Here are some videos of our Peanut!








More pictures, videos and blog posts to come soon! (Or as I can get to the computer LOL)

2 comments:

  1. I agree with you about the pressure from the lactation consultants. Don't hate me but Lorelei latched perfectly about 10 minutes after she was born and really had no feeding issues. HOWEVER, the LC's still make me feel like I sucked and were always trying to change the way I did stuff. I can only imagine how hard it would be if you truly had struggled with it. On a side, note I may be going to help because I felt glad reading your post because I felt the EXACT SAME WAY. Good to know I'm not a freak. Well maybe I am, but I am a freak with company!

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  2. Yeah it was VERY rough. I think more rough for me due to the fact I hadn't slept for like 50 hours straight and the hormones were all over the place when we were in hospital and the first few days at home. All I know is, that I won't let it be so rough on me when we have another kiddo. I won't take any of it too seriously. My pediatrician made me feel better and at ease by assuring me that My daughter will be just as healthy as any other little one with the formula and Juliet's been gaining weight and growing wonderfully! So it's all good!

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